
The definition of a miserable person is wretchedly unhappy or
uncomfortable. That is pretty spot on don’t you think? When a person is
miserable they never see or expect the good in anything and always try
to make those around them feel just as bad and negative as them. Being
miserable is a way of life for some people because they get sympathy,
constant reassurance from other miserable people and a sense of self,
defined by whatever circumstance they find themselves in.
Unfortunately,
highly miserable people are much more accepted in society as opposed to
someone that is happy and upbeat all the time, who can be looked at as
‘weird’ or ‘strange’.
If you are tired of being miserable and want
a happy existence on this planet, I’ve come up with a few habits of
highly miserable people. If you can identify and change one around
you’ll be well on your way to a good life again!
They are never thankful for anything
Being grateful and
thankful for anything in a highly miserable person’s life is a big no!
When a person shows gratitude they should doing it from a point of view
of happiness and are usually ten times more likely to be thankful for
things they already have rather than the things they don’t. If you are a
miserable person, you’ll avoid any expressions of gratitude at all
costs because it goes against what you believe. You’ll think that
counting your blessings is a waste of time and life will always be full
of something to be ungrateful about.
They lead a very unadventurous life
Highly
miserable people lead a dull, boring and unadventurous life. They
ensure that you have a mundane existence, with no fun, no possibility or
excitement and then complain about it! When life is unadventurous and
boring they’ll start to believe that they are boring and project that
upon other people. Life is predictable as far as a highly miserable
person is concerned. TV is a big activity in this kind of life coupled
with addiction and other mediocre activities such as reading tabloid
papers and celebrity magazines, none of which stimulate or invigorate
the body or mind.
They live in and glorify the past
We’ve
all done it, said things like ‘it was so much better when I was a kid’
except highly miserable people tend to live their lives stuck in the
past rather than remembering it fondly and moving on. They’ll talk about
what has happened, what they have done and what it was like back then,
saying that life has only gone downhill since. When a highly miserable
person vilifies the past, they refer to it as being born in the wrong
place at the wrong time or life when they were a kid was unhappy and
they never got what they wanted.